What is True Love?
- True love is loving yourself, and loving others as you love yourself.
- Contrary to popular opinion:
- You cannot truly love another person, if you don't love yourself first.
- That is why true love is based on self love first, and it is not selfish to love yourself.
- (It is a societal misconception that you need to give yourself up in order to love another person.)
- (The truth is, if you give up yourself for another person, you will eventually resent it,
- not only hating the other person for it, but also beating yourself up for doing so.)
- If you give up yourself, you will end up losing yourself.
- If you are empty (half-empty or just half-a-person), what extra can you give to another person?
- If you are full (as a whole person), you would have lots to give to another person!
- That's how you can love someone fully.
- That's what true love is:
- that you can give without worrying about losing them,
- which is to love freely, and
- you can receive without possessing them,
- which is to be loved freely too.
How can you reach such a state of true love?
- Love is an art and a science.
- You can learn how to love if you know how
- because you can perfect the art of loving
- by knowing the basic wants and needs in a person,
- by knowing how to communicate your wants and needs, and
- by knowing how to get these wants and needs fulfilled
- for you and
- for your loved one.
- Love is an art
- because it is unique
- for each person and
- for each couple.
- Love is a science
- because love can be learned and
- improved with the "know-how" and
- with practice.
- This is why we are here to help you reach that state by
- coaching you, and
- guiding you through the process
- so that you will find the path
- to your true love.
What does coaching do?
- In coaching,
- we believe you are naturally resourceful, creative and whole,
- so we don't go backwards to "fix" something that is broken.
- Rather we move you forward positively
- towards a more fulfilling and balanced life.
- We want you to fully engaged in making things happen
- so you will make dreams can come true in your life.
- By moving forward positively,
- you will naturally get rid of negatives and leave the "baggage" behind.
- Love is everywhere,
- if you know where to look, and
- what to look for.
- You can keep the love you have,
- if you know how to keep it
- in your heart, and
- in your love's heart.
- We are:
- positive,
- empowering,
- supportive, and
- nurturing.
- We know the way to true love, and
- we know you will too.
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